I have found As women grow older, they understand themselves and others better and are less willing to be people pleasers or to seek long-term attachment to any person or thing...especially after their children are grown. And to quote Lemony Snicket ....“Everyone, at some point in their lives, wakes up in the middle of the night with the feeling that they are all alone in the world, and that nobody loves them now and that nobody will ever love them, and that they will never have a decent night’s sleep again and will spend their lives wandering blearily around a loveless landscape, hoping desperately that their circumstances will improve, but suspecting, in their heart of hearts, that they will remain unloved forever. The best thing to do in these circumstances is to wake somebody else up, so that they can feel this way, too.”
— Lemony Snicket, Horseradish: Bitter Truths You Can’t Avoid.
You can't afford to carry excess baggage forever. On planes, it will cost you extra money. On the trip of life, it can cost you even more. This is really true. If you come with a heavy load how are you suppose to help the other person with their load? I mean two light loads can be handled within the structure of your relationship but if one load far out weighs the other it wont stand. Relationships I don't care what type relationship it is they are like bank accounts...if you never invest anything into them, then you'll never get anything out of them! We should learn to be more kind and gentle with our words and interaction with others Your words will shape your life. Speak words of inspiration and encouragement to one another. Build each other up, don't tear each other down.
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