Hello I am Denise

Hello I am Denise I want to first introduce myself. I have mad crazy love for those who serve and sacrifice for our country.. I am a small town USA. 40 something my kids have families and I've been single for more than 5 years. I don't date much. I tried relationships a couple time because I truly want to be in one , but I refuse to settle for less than real love . So as I wait for my love to find me I am a cougar  , how ever I don't chase/hunt my prey I let them be the aggressor then I choose the one who is really down , someone I believe wants the same from me as I do him  openness , friendship and lots of sex... it usually lasts between 3 to 9 months and I am really picky ;)

I have found As women grow older, they understand themselves and others better and are less willing to be people pleasers or to seek long-term attachment to any person or thing...especially after their children are grown.   And to quote Lemony Snicket ....“Everyone, at some point in their lives, wakes up in the middle of the night with the feeling that they are all alone in the world, and that nobody loves them now and that nobody will ever love them, and that they will never have a decent night’s sleep again and will spend their lives wandering blearily around a loveless landscape, hoping desperately that their circumstances will improve, but suspecting, in their heart of hearts, that they will remain unloved forever. The best thing to do in these circumstances is to wake somebody else up, so that they can feel this way, too.”

— Lemony Snicket, Horseradish: Bitter Truths You Can’t Avoid.

You can't afford to carry excess baggage forever. On planes, it will cost you extra money. On the trip of life, it can cost you even more. This is really true. If you come with a heavy load how are you suppose to help the other person with their load? I mean two light loads can be handled within the structure of your relationship but if one load far out weighs the other it wont stand. Relationships I don't care what type relationship it is they are like bank accounts...if you never invest anything into them, then you'll never get anything out of them! We should learn to be more kind and gentle with our words and interaction with others Your words will shape your life. Speak words of inspiration and encouragement to one another. Build each other up, don't tear each other down.

*Why God Created Woman from Man’s Rib*

*Why God Created Woman from Man’s Rib*

Wednesday, 11 October 2006 by journalynne

Stolen from Florence Toh’s blog

It’s amazing how God made man, and so beautiful how he made woman!

Why did God create Woman from Man’s rib, when He could
have simply created her from dust, as He did Man? This
is a story that puts a beautiful touch on the
reasoning:

“When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke
them into being. When I created man, I formed him from
the dust of the Earth and breathed life into his
nostrils. But you, woman, I fashioned after I breathed
the breath of life into man because your nostrils are
too delicate. I allowed a deep sleep to come over him
so I could patiently and perfectly fashion you. Man
was put to sleep so that he could not interfere with
the creativity. From one bone I fashioned you. I chose
the bone that protects man’s life. I chose the rib,
which protects his heart and lungs and supports him,
as you are meant to do.”

“Around this one bone I shaped you. I modeled you. I
created you perfectly and beautifully. Your
characteristics are as the rib, strong yet delicate
and fragile. You provide protection for the most
delicate organ in man, his heart. His heart is the
center of his being; his lungs hold the breath of
life. The rib cage will allow itself to be broken
before it will allow damage to the heart. Support man
as the rib cage supports the body.”

“You were not taken from his feet, to be under him,
nor were you taken from his head, to be above him. You
were taken from his side, to stand beside him and be
held close to his side. You are my perfect angel. You
are my beautiful little girl. You have grown to be a
splendid woman of excellence, and my eyes fill when I
see the virtue in your heart. Your eyes: don’t change
them. Your lips: how lovely when they part in prayer.
Your nose so perfect in form, your hands so gentle to
touch. I’ve caressed your face in your deepest sleep;
I’ve held your heart close to mine. Of all that lives
and breathes, you are the most like me.”

“Adam walked with me in the cool of the day and yet he
was lonely. He could not see me or touch me. He could
only feel me. So everything I wanted Adam to share and
experience with me, I fashioned in you: my holiness,
my strength, my purity, my love, my protection and
support. You are special because you are the extension
of me.”

“Man represents my image, woman – my emotions.
Together, you represent the totality of God. So man:
treat woman well. Love her, respect her, for she is
fragile. In hurting her, you hurt me. What you do to
her, you do to me. In crushing her, you only damage
your own heart, the heart of your Father and the heart
of her Father. Woman, support man. In humility, show
him the power of emotion I have given you. In gentle
quietness show your strength. In love, show him that
you are the rib that protects his inner self.”